Sunday, March 14, 2010

Facebook Friends with a Dying Patient (Via NYTimes)

If you want a better story about the potential for social media to be another tool for connecting people to each other, you won't have to look much further than Daniela Lamas' essay in the New York Times this past week.

As a medical resident she tells of a critically ill man using his laptop frequently in his ICU bed to update his Facebook status. Through a very simple exchange at the bedside, they became friends on Facebook, a new relationship which became much more complex.

The essay is short, but packs several difficult questions that Daniela elucidates very well in the essay. Read it and bring it to your team to see if they have had a similar experience. You may be surprised.

(Photo by Flickr user: brykmantra)

(By the way, I have started a new NYT label.  If anyone wants to help find all the NYT posts and help us label them, that would be great!)

2 Responses to “Facebook Friends with a Dying Patient (Via NYTimes)”

Suzana Makowski MD said...
March 15, 2010

Christian,
Thanks for posting on this article ... I think this (doctors "friending" patients on facebook) raises a few questions about the potential strengths and weaknesses of "friending" on facebook.
A few thoughts I'd suggest considering:
1- What are the expectations of the friending?
2- What boundaries are you setting?
3- If you friend them, how will you practice non-abandonment? What sort of "friend" will you be? What is your responsibility in this form of relationship?


Anne Marie said...
April 15, 2010

Suzana... those are some great questions. We've been discussing this article on Buzz so I will copy over your questions.
http://www.google.com/buzz/110859855629071891085/FwLUrwgqfU9/Facebook-Friend-Request-A-young-doctor-gets-a

I don't have answers yet but these are important questions.